Another post from reddit.com guy asks Where should I look to find good Thai girls, there's good n bad everywhere in all walks of life, he found a beautiful girl only to find out after she was a hooker, so what, does that make her a bad girl. OK a hooker takes your money but don't all girls do that. Read the comments in the link below there better than the questions asked Where should I look to find good Thai girls?As the title says, where should I look? I ask because I met a girl at an RCA club and although she was very beautiful, that turned out to be a waste of time. I found out she was actually a hooker a month later and just really intent on hiding it. Which is about what hookers would do I guess, it's not like they are going to be honest people.
So anyway! Not turning this into a hooker thread! How can I find decent girls? Should I avoid any/all province girls and just filter them out and only see Bangkok girls? Where should I meet them, is RCA too much of a hotbed for hookers?
NewSpaghettiMonster In my opinion, interrogation approach does not work well with Thais... or anyone for that matter. Treat others as you wish to be treated. While a Thai might not talk back at you for treating her like a suspected hooker, she surely will remember, and potentially downgrade you. Respect matters in a relationship more than it seems at first, and is easily lost, sometimes without much noise.
In general, Thais are non-confrontational and the "interview" will be frustrating for both even if they have no relevant secrets. Everyone has something, however small, they aren't necessarily proud of, and Thais put more value in keeping up appearances than Farang.
Simply take your time, relax and observe, that's all you need to do. If you don't intentionally overlook little details, the truth will emerge at some point. Gently attempting to get involved in their life (e.g. pick them up at work, meet friends) can also give you more information, all while being a good guy rather than the Spanish Inquisition.
If you are pressed for time... then you'll have to take a gamble.
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