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Why do all farangs get married with ugly Thai women
« on: July 03, 2017, 03:38:20 PM »
Oh! dear, that's not a nice heading - Why do all farangs get married with ugly Thai women -  A post found on reddit.com.  Yes we all know beauty is in the eye of the beholder - In my time in Thailand i would say that from what i've seen the women are more attractive than what would be hanging on your arm, than say the UK.
Why doesn't he ask the men, why is your wife ugly :o i think not, but behind a keyboard, much safer he is.


Why do all farangs get married with ugly Thai women? (Just my observation)

Seen in Bangkok, Chiangmai and Phuket- most of farangs I have seen with families are married with ugly Thai/to old women. I mean, I come from UAE... where these type of men would not compromise on looks, body shape and intelligence. But here, I don't really get what made them chose these poor looking, below average women as life partners. I am talking about handsome young farangs to rich old men.

Here's a few comments on the subject, loads more in the link below

Quasimodo6
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder! :-) I personally think Thai women tend to be more attractive than western women (North America) on average. Also western women are very unapproachable.

NewSpaghettiMonster
I don't think the OP meant to imply that Thai women are ugly on average, but that a disproportionate number of foreigners are married to those who are ugly relative to other Thais.

dxbchik
I totally agree with the looks part. But, my question is, why the same nationality men won't got for less than a super model girl in other countries? here I saw this handsome French guy married to a Thai below average looking girl with poor hygiene and appear rly zero social skills. Then I saw this old man, married to woman who looked way older than the man hon self. I don't get the reason... is it that they are desperate or they really fell blindly in love?

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Lashay_Sombra

For many, they played the game, banged multiple out of their normal league, probably young enough to be their daughter, girls (and probably lost of money and got lots of heartbreak and aggro along ythe way) and came to simple realisation.

Looks are low on list when looking for long term partner.

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Re: Why do all farangs get married with ugly Thai women
« Reply #1 on: July 03, 2017, 09:12:05 PM »
this guy certainly knows how to impress people and make friends,was he the one with the ugly bug on his arm,sounds like a bit of jealousy,he is out of touch with human connection and no balance with harmony and nature.qualities in a person or thing that gives pleasure to the senses or pleasurably exalts the mind or spirit,loveliness,which is natural beauty.

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Re: Why do all farangs get married with ugly Thai women
« Reply #2 on: July 06, 2017, 05:45:21 PM »
I remember a group of folks here in Korat who used get together on the piss, then discuss which farang had the ugliest wife. As if there aren't better things to do. The discussion would take place several times and they would always agree on the same person, some dutch fella.  A week could pass and they'd still have the same discussion again over and over. There are other turn-offs other than the looks of a woman.  For example, say you're with a super hot bird, but she has a filthy mouth and craps her pants...maybe even farts when go down there. You know?  Those things can turn a man off very quickly and yet excite other folks.  Japanese are into some weird shti...poop cams, toilet cams, etc.

I think it was Rodney Dangerfield who once said, "If you're going to get married, marry someone who is a good cook, because the looks will go, but you'll always be hungry. 
 

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Re: Why do all farangs get married with ugly Thai women
« Reply #3 on: July 07, 2017, 02:19:07 PM »
Hee! Hee! i just luv the detail B/F - Flatulence = Skidmarks  :o

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Re: Why do all farangs get married with ugly Thai women
« Reply #4 on: July 08, 2017, 05:11:24 PM »
Is that a skid mark on that caboose?
 

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Re: Why do all farangs get married with ugly Thai women
« Reply #5 on: July 08, 2017, 05:41:27 PM »
terdsack  :lol :lol :lol
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Re: Why do all farangs get married with ugly Thai women
« Reply #6 on: July 08, 2017, 07:07:55 PM »
tossaporn  ;D
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Re: Why do all farangs get married with ugly Thai women
« Reply #7 on: July 09, 2017, 12:28:03 AM »
Why do all farangs get married with ugly Thai women

the statement is not true it says   ALL FARANGS  has this guy traveled over thailand and checked or is he in his rented room in soi 6  ;D terdsacktosser
 

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Re: Why do all farangs get married with ugly Thai women
« Reply #8 on: July 09, 2017, 12:52:02 PM »
A few words from dreamholidayasia.com.

So why do western men seem to frequently find the worst of Thailand when it comes to Thai women?



1) Firstly, western men do have a reputation in Thailand, some good, some not so good. I’ll narrow it down to the two that seems to matter most.

2) Thais think that all farangs are wealthy. Can be good and bad… more on that later.

3) Thais believe that farang men are whore-chasers and connoisseurs of low-class women.

Farangs need to understand Thai’s belief and culture in class distinction to appreciate the importance of number 2.

And before you go about beating up Thais for falsely believing number 2, understand that Thais know what’s going on in Pattaya, Phuket, and the seedier areas of Bangkok.

They see farang guys trying to pass their hookers off as girlfriends and they know. Heck, everyone knows. So if you want to blame anyone, blame these true whore-chasers who are still out there every single day.

It never ceases to amaze me how Western men get upset when Thai folks mistakenly assume their wives/GFs are hookers, yet see for themselves other farangs with hookers and don’t even bat an eye.

Thais only believe that Thai women with white men are BGs/ex-BGs because it’s true the majority of the time.

Back to the topic. So Thai women believe that farangs are wealthy.

What kind of women will this attract?

Well, certainly women who are into money.

I’ll say that most women consider this to be desirable, but only a few believe it to be the most important thing.

The ones who have it on the top of their priority list will certainly be after guys that have it. But then there’s the number 2 rep that farangs carry around, the whore-chasing thing.

Most Thai girls culturally are conservative by nature and don’t want to be seen as “that sort of woman.”

So that takes out the “nice” girls. And the women that are educated and well-off – well they don’t need that stigma either.

I mean, why be looked at as some low-class gold-digger when you’ve already got your own money?

So what you’re left with are the poor desperate types who aren’t concerned about their reputation or what other people think because quite frankly, they have much more pressing problems.

So what I’m saying is that farangs have got the typical Thai women (most of the time from Isaan) pegged all wrong, yet they’re probably right about the Thai women that they’ve been with.

And this is because most of the Thai women that farangs end up with are not ordinary Thai women.

Most Western men are not going to want to believe this. They’ll want to believe what the women who they’ve met have told them, that farang guys are every Thai women’s desire, that Thai guys are all drunks and cheats, blah, blah, blah.

But seriously, what else are these women going to tell you?

That they’d rather be with a Thai guy, but are with the farang for financial reasons? I’m sure that will go over well with most farangs.

The truth is probably that many of these women have had some bad experiences with Thai guys and although they’d still prefer a decent Thai guy, he’s probably out of reach.

And the clock is ticking for her and her family. So why is this “decent Thai guy” so out of reach for these “Isaan” type women?
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Re: Why do all farangs get married with ugly Thai women
« Reply #9 on: July 09, 2017, 06:58:21 PM »
Decent Thai guy?  Is there such a thing?

I love #3 "Thais believe that farang men are whore-chasers and connoisseurs of low-class women.."

That is so true and the reason for that is because they go for the low class whores in places like Pattaya, Pat Pong, Nana, etc.  The women there are the bottom of the barrel....the dark skin farm girls.  Try going to one of the upper class places in Bangkok and you won't see girls like that, but you will pay more. 

The truth is and dare I say it, is that Thai men are the biggest whore chasers of any class women, including chickens, dogs, cows, anything with a hole in it (just read the news).  The difference is that they keep all their hanky panky stuff secret.  They don't parade their whore in shopping malls and in public places like farangs do. The other thing is that in Thai culture, you're not supposed to talk about it, but it's okay to talk sht as much as you can about the farang. By talking about it with a Thai it would cause a tremendous loss of face and we can't have that in Thailand.  I'll bet Somchai's wife wold have something to say about it when she finds out her husband is porking a Mia Noi on the side....then again, some don't care as long as he is paying the bills and taking care of the family.  Maybe that's what the girls mean when they say they want to find a "good" Thai guy.  One who pays the bills.  Come to think of it, there really isn't that much difference between a whore and a girlfriend.  Think about it.
 

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Re: Why do all farangs get married with ugly Thai women
« Reply #10 on: July 09, 2017, 09:45:20 PM »
The truth is and dare I say it, is that Thai men are the biggest whore chasers of any class women, including chickens, dogs, cows, anything with a hole in it (just read the news).
I'm reading the news now https://hilight.kapook.com/view/155858

Old man caught naked having sex with a dog but no charges as the dog went willingly

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Re: Why do all farangs get married with ugly Thai women
« Reply #11 on: July 10, 2017, 05:10:40 PM »
Back on track guys and there's more hair raising comments in the same article from dreamholidayasia.com
all about farang men only date ugly Thai women. But remember guys if If the woman is attractive to you and a good person, it shouldn’t matter what anyone else thinks  8)


The “Unspoken” Secret By Thais

There’s a well-kept secret in Thailand that every Thai person seems to know but no farang does (or maybe can’t grasp what it means).

It boggles my mind actually because you can’t get three Thai people to agree on anything but nearly everyone agrees on this, both men and women.

That farang men only date ugly Thai women

Now, this is where there’s a huge perception difference between Thai and white men.

It’s the Isaan factor again.

Let me try to explain it so that the average Western man can relate; Thais look at dark-skinned women sort of the same way that Americans look at fat white women.


You, Farang.

When you walk around the street of Thailand with your cute Thai girl from Isaan (see her on the left side of this picture), every Thai man will see your sweetheart as you see the woman on the right side of the picture.

In conclusion, what looks and feel good for you, in other culture might be the opposite. Keep walking.

Most Western guys don’t dream of waking up every morning next to an obese woman, but admittedly, some guys are into that sort of thing. And if you are, you’ve got the pick of the litter.

And that’s how it is with Isaan type women. Thai men of reasonable means are not going to be interested in these type of women, and these women know it.

Don’t believe me? Heck, just watch some Thai TV and see what they’re touting in the commercials.

Constantly seeing products that are alleged to lighten women’s skin.

Look at the Thai women soap stars.

Certainly, doesn’t fit the profile of a girl typically seen with a farang. Now I honestly don’t believe that farangs “prefer” these Isaan type of women, although most seem content with anyone who’s thin and young, regardless of what they look like. But that’s really all that’s available to most white men.

Something interesting that I’ve noticed is that it’s almost pointless to be a good-looking white guy in Thailand.

Because you’re going to have access to the same pool of women as that fat, hairy, smelly, 55-year-old German guy sitting at the end of the bar.

You’re not going to have access to the same type of women that I have – and I say this almost apologetically.

Back in the states, you see a good looking guy and you expect him to be with an attractive woman. And he almost always is.

But here, you see a good-looking farang guy, and the chances are that his GF/wife will be the same Isaan-type woman that all the other farang guys run around with.

There’s a young farang guy in my company who’s got the classic GQ look.

I mean this guy would be a serious ladies man back in the states. Nice guy too.

Yet, his girlfriend is just oh-so-typical Isaan-type. And another guy, not as GQ, but in his late 20’s, better than average looking, making solid money, and his new wife has two kids (not his), and of course… well, no need to beat a dead horse.

Nothing wrong with this, by the way, if they’re happy. Just an observation.

Which brings me back to the “secret” thing. It’s not really the intention of Thais to deceive farangs here or keep him from the truth.

Thais really don’t like hurting people’s feelings, farangs or otherwise.

But there’s no way to tell the guys and honestly, why would we want to?

If the woman is attractive to you (and a good person to boot), it shouldn’t matter what everyone else thinks (ever seen the American movie Shallow Hal?).

I’ve run into many situations where my farang colleagues or friends would show me a picture of their new GF, just gushing with their new found love expecting me to shower him with the compliments of what a goddess she was.

Believe me, these gals were almost always hideous, but I just usually nod in agreement.

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Re: Why do all farangs get married with ugly Thai women
« Reply #12 on: July 10, 2017, 08:38:36 PM »
This guy makes a lot of generalizations about farangs.  I agree with some of the things he says, but the more I read, the more I see how much he doesn't know.  For example, Thai women do not like dark skin THAI men too!  Guess what?  That means they ALSO look down on the Dark Skin Thai men. How many Thai men fit in this category?  Look at the Thai couples and see how many dark skin Thais are with dark skin girls. A lot. He left that part out.  Also, Thais in general (Mostly Bangkokians) look down on ALL Isaan people.  This isn't isolated to just the dark skin girls.  Thai men DO take the dark skin whores and Mia Nois too.  In fact, I'd say even more so than foreigners.  You just don't see it, but here's something you can see. The next time you go to The Mall see how many of these Thai men are with a white skin beauty Chinese girl.  1%.   Take a look at all the dark couples with their dark children.

This guy seems to think he as access to Thai women that all the other farangs don't have access too.  Trust me.  He doesn't anymore than any other swinging dcik farang walking down the street with a wad of cash. Most, if not the majority, of the farangs he is referring to are the ones who go to the places I mentioned in my previous post.....and what kind of women do you find there?  I'll give you a hint, they aren't the white skin Chinese beauties you find in Bangkok which are ALSO accessible to farangs and just about any foreigner, unless you're black or Arab. If places like Pattaya had only white Skin Chinese girls working there, do you really think that foreigners would cease to go there because of the lack of dark skin girls?  No way.   

This guy needs to educate himself a little more before putting all the farangs in one pot.  One last thing.  There are hordes of Thai men with uglier than hell Thai women.  Many! 

 

 



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